you ARE making progress
This memory has been a touchstone for me and I've shared the lesson with many friends if they ever express the feeling of not making progres. It’s an illusion. And I learned that in calligraphy class.
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I'm in calligraphy class and it's a few weeks in. We’re still practicing writing o’s, which is so so so much more difficult than it sounds.
We’re sitting there individually practicing these simple marks and the instructor notices that we’re getting a little frustrated. We didn't say anything, but she could tell. She said something that has stuck with me, clearly, ever since. Obvi I don't recall her exact words but it was something to the effect of...
“I can tell that you’re all getting frustrated but trust that you're making progress. Now that you've been working for a few weeks you can spot your mistakes better. You're making progress, it's just that our eye develops more quickly than our hand does."..... And I've literally never been the same since learning this piece of wisdom. Actually genius.
Our minds and our capacity to see where we’re going develop ahead of our physical tangible progress, which creates the illusion that we're stagnant. By stepping into action you start learning and catapult your mind. You simply widen the gap between where you are and where you believe you can be. You're not losing progress, you’re gaining vision. And potential. And possibilities.
If you're feeling frustrated... you're probably learning and you've probably just expanded your potential. Take it easy, you've got this, keep going.
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