For Mr.Mandela
As an organizer I’ve never been interested in imposing ideas (ie: plastic containers) onto someone’s lifestyle… ideas and material that they don’t need or want or, more importantly, will continue not knowing how to interact with.
As a mentor and coach I have had and always will have an individualized approach rooted in building a relationship of trust, communication, and accountability. Pivotal to this posture is believing that I have SO MUCH to learn from everyone around me, including those I’m setting out to help.
People live differently, period. I don’t believe in assuming people are disorganized. In fact I don’t believe in making any assumptions about people and that’s generally a good rule of thumb and exactly what this piece of writing is about.
It is important to recognize that we sort constantly. We make and subscribe to categories whether we’re mindful of it or not. It’s good to pay attention to the organization that we make or accept. Sorting is a very powerful, potentially social and relational and, at the same time, highly personal act. Sorting has various depths and considerations. It’s crucial we recognize and be sensitive to this fact.
To be blunt and obvi and oversimplified, making assumptions about others based on the color of their skin, where they come from, their language, their lifestyle, the way they live… is as arbitrary and stupid as sorting all of your kitchen appliances by shade and color. Nonsense.
Our autonomy to sort, reorganize, and rethink is hopeful. I sincerely trust that we will make humane choices.